WHAT DO WOMEN WANT?

I also laugh real hard when I hear this, "what do women really want" thing.The fun in this is how the men look tired and exhausted trying to understand women of which it's not that serious really! One thing to note is that, every woman is different and has her uniqueness just as every man is.

The same way we have our different sexual fetish; some fetish may appear weird to those who don't practice such. I mean for instance, men who love dirty stockings or ladies who love armpit hair.. Honestly, I happen to know a few and probably fallen a victim of one- Interesting yeah? So believe me when I say, wants and needs differ.

If you ask any woman including myself what we want, our typical response is "I just want to be happy" 

Who doesn't want to be happy?

I think what women want is beyond happiness. Because every woman in love with a man who loves her in return is always happy and what makes her happy is just LOVE. Hardly would you find a woman who loves and is loved being grumpy and having multiple moods. Women are the easiest to please. 

Or let me rephrase. Good women are the easiest to please. Every good woman wants whatever her man has to offer. A man who offers the world and deprives his woman ATTENTION has failed. If you love your woman you will do everything to ensure her EMOTIONAL SECURITY that is, she doesn't have a feeling of another woman in your life. When things are going good for you, you must tell her even when things aren't you must have a strong COMMUNICATION process. When your woman brings an issue that bothers her to your table, be it about your sexual life, her work life, her friends or whatever the case may be PAY ATTENTION to her. I am sure every man also knows what a woman would like to have. Study her, her friends, study her body language and pay attention to her needs.

A woman is simple.

Now I ask, what do men really want? 

Love? Sex? Multiple women?

Because a woman can give a man all he wants- love, sex, attention, emotional security, food and peace but he still finds one woman out there to behold.

So fling in your responses and lets share ideas right at the comment box below. 

UNCHANGEABLE

Trying so hard to be that ideal girl but for some reasons you remain a simple no deal.
Putting up an album of a dark past with a hope to justify your wrong acts.
Referring your flaws to your horrors.
Making up stories of a desired you, just so that little ego of yours doesn't stop being admired.
Speaking against your type with so much aggression because you hate to accept your attribution.


But that is who you are..
A girl who only laments but never repents
A girl who knows right but sticks to wrong in the name of being strong.
A girl who mentally battles with the being good or bad with a clear choice of being bad
A girl who sheds tears to cover fears!
A girl as cunny as a fox who claims to be your rock


You can be who you desire to be...
But first, be you.
Accept you.
Love you.
Enjoy you.


Nothing bad in being bad, nothing wrong in being wrong.
Nothing good in being good, nothing right in being right.
What's bad is to be in denial of any, either right or wrong.


There are stages in life. Go through them gradually.
It is one thing to be aware of the right thing to do and another to actually do it right.

Just don't fight the process...

GOD IS BEAUTIFUL

 It has indeed been a while I last visited my blog. But I am  here today again to remind you of how awesome a God like mine is.  

Let me tell you about the Power and the Presence of God.

First thing is- "His awesomeness" Go ahead and imagine how Great, Big and Wonderful having a God feels like. If the works of our hands, the amazing talents we possess, the new talents we discover every day and the miracles we encounter daily doesn't speak of my God to you? Then I must ask, who is your god?

I do not generalize my God, for my God is the Father of Our Lord Jesus Christ and that is who I boast about.

All the days that I have lived here on earth, not for once have I had to worry about who has got my back or who will stand by me till the end of time. What captivates me about this whole God thing is the fact that He has a heart so big not just to do wonderful things for me alone but for everyone. - You & I

The Power in talking to Him on your knees and complaining about everything that you don't like and things that you want but you don't have is just the most beautiful moment on this earth. I fall in love with Him more each day I wake up because it is another opportunity to feel like a Princess who gets whatever she wants by just "asking"

I am always overwhelmed when God answers to His name in certain situations I throw myself into. I adore God most especially because He never fails or sly me. When He says - "Call upon me" He means that! When He says - " By His stripes you are healed" You are really healed. But when do we want to learn to believe that His words are true, pure and without lies?

You can only see and witness the Power of God in your Obedience to faith. When He says -" Have faith in me" Just believe blindly and let Him walk you through. The painful thing is, many of us rather be blindly in love with a fellow human being and trust them guards down than be in love with God and put your absolute trust in Him. 

Even when you hurt God He doesn't neglect you when you come to say you're sorry. Even when you forget to talk to Him for weeks but on that faithful day when you decide to return to Him, He will be there. Several times in my early life, I rather wear the guilt of not praying and talking to God than to actually set aside time for Him. But I have come to realize something; it isn't about praying to Him because it is mandatory to get going in a tough world like ours, but I feel at home and at peace when I talk to Him. I become confident in everything I do. I boast of excellence in all my endeavors without doubt because I know my backup and I know of a God who arises and answers to His name.

I know I have a Big God. Who is your god?

But hear it again.

I have a good God and an Amazing Father! What a combination!

You see me smiling all the time, happy and glowing? Be reminded that I have a father in Heaven who comes down to earth when my enemies are planning a coup!

What Makes Me Special?

I am special and I know it.

So, either you or anyone swallows that, the status remains the same- That special girl.

Beautiful and smart is gold; Smart is silver and Beautiful is bronze- I have gold.

Personality as peaceful and transparent as that new mirror sitting behind my cupboard.

The presence of me as still and gentle as the blue sea with the bright sun wearing a cap over our heads.

Every of my words just right for the perfect occasion; to cheer, to comfort, to love, to hurt and to make peace.

My tongue as sharp as a blade, cruel as a polar bear, just when my emotions are bitten.

But,

Freely I give myself to that person that my heart points a finger at saying “awesome”.

Who can blame a heart hungry to love and be loved- only the devil.

In the end,

Should my heart be wrong?

If I get hurt

Or should it not have been what I was searching for?

I’d do something as simple as resume searching

Gather my horns and never forget my strings to strike the cord.

Eyes so sharp, antenna’s so active the signals come in strong.

Ready to breathe new air and create new waves.

It definitely hurts,

That it won’t be you I’d be kissing all night long

Your body nicely grinding against mine would all be memories

The fizzling I get when you whisper “do you like it” would be some other sexy guy all up in my bed

Telling me, “how do you like it” “Do you like it this way… or that way… or- “

My genuine happiness won’t be for you anymore but for him that understood what I felt for him wasn’t ordinary.

For him that cherished my smiles, complaints, openness and my moments.

For him that was proud to flaunt me to the whole world.

He is proud to have me just while you weren’t.

He understood my love needs and that’s why he had me.

It was nice to have met you.